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You Don't Have To Do This All By Yourself 

Connect with yourself and other women who understand what it means to rebuild their lives after high demand religion.

Only $27/mo! Cancel at any time!
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No one Understands How Hard it is to Leave Your Faith

Unless they've walked that same road too.

When we left Christianity twenty years ago, we had no guideposts and no community. We were completely alone, trying to rebuild a life while navigating:

  •  an existential crisis 
  •  distance or exile from family and friends 
  •  the loss of our career, identity, and certainty 
  •  a world we were entering with the naĂŻvetĂ© of a child 

This community was created with our younger selves in mind. We kept asking, What did that 27 year old woman need? What would have helped her feel less alone?

Since then, we have watched the lives of hundreds of women shift simply by having a place where they are seen, understood, and surrounded by others who carry similar stories. This sisterhood has become the support we once wished we had.

WHAT THIS COMMUNITY OFFERS →

"Thank you so much for providing this to so many people.

Deconstruction is so incredibly hard, on a level that no one can really understand unless they have gone through it, and I have been so comforted to interact with others in the midst of it. Thank you both for giving this gift to the world."

- Kaylor, Happy Whole U alum

   What's Included in Our Community  

   Monthly Gatherings 

We'll come together as a community for reflective convos, taboo topics, cozy happy hours, and shared moments of connection that remind you you are not alone. We meet every 1st Wednesday of the month from 5-6:30 pm PT.

  The Wild Book Club  

Each month, we explore a story from Women Who Run With the Wolves to help us untangle the former good girl conditioning and step more into our Wild selves. We meet the last Wednesday of each month from 9 to 10:30 am PT.

   Special Events  

We also offer tailored events throughout the year, including seasonal circles, guest speakers, and coffee chat Q+As, each one designed to support the unique challenges  that come with rebuilding your life after leaving religion.

   Private Platform  

Get daily access to our member community where you can create your own meetups, share resources, find inspiration, and connect with women in your area. You will never have to explain your story here, because everyone already gets it.

Rebuild your life after religion.

In our Community village, you'll be surrounded and supported by others who just get it, without ever having to explain yourself.

  Enjoy monthly meetups.  

  Make real connections.  

  Develop inner wisdom.  

  Cancel at anytime.  

  Only $27/Mo!   

 

JOIN US TODAY →

"I've grown so much from the hard-earned wisdom and gentle guidance from Cara and Rachael.

They genuinely care about each of our unique journeys and meet us where we are with compassion. Connecting with the community they've built has been a turning point for me." 

- Lisa, current Community member

MEET YOUR GUIDES

Hi, We're Cara + Rachael

 👩🏼‍🎓 M.A. Certified Coaches 

We both hold a Master's degree in Soul Care from an accredited private University (since 2007), and are certified Spiritual Directors.

 👋🏽 20 Years Out of Evangelicalism 

Two decades have passed since we've left the Church, giving us ample time and space to address our religious programming and rebuild our lives.

 🫱🏼‍🫲🏽 We are clinically trained for this 

We've put in 100s of hours under clinical supervision in order to give you the best proper care. 

It's important for us to honor this version of ourselves in our work. They would be so proud to see what their courage was able to create.

"Nothing short of life changing!

Cara and Rachael are so talented. They bring such a wonderful fusion of energy, support and creativity into everything they do...from the beautiful workbook and visual imagery, guided meditations, and the special theme nights."

- Brandi, Happy Whole U alum

Monthly

$29/m

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Annually

$99/m

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"In the sea of deconstruction and never having a positive experience with other women in Bible Studies/any faith related activities, this has been incredibly validating & transformative."

-Community member

"This community has given me access to a group of people I otherwise didn’t know existed. I've discovered so much about myself and have learned some powerful tools! SO valuable to me!"

-Community member 

"I already feel this great sense of comfort from having this community and knowing everyone here 'gets it'. Thank you all for sharing last night.I am so grateful for this space!" 

-Happy Whole U alum

This is the perfect place for you if:

  • You want a stable, grounded space that isn’t chaotic like social media or Facebook groups.  

  •  You want to explore who you are becoming without pressure to land anywhere specific.

  • You want access to women who are on the same journey of healing and reclamation. 

  • You want a rhythm of reflection, community, and meaning-making each month.  

  • You’re ready to step into a truer, more authentic version of yourself.  

  • You want to grow in self-trust, boundaries, and inner clarity.  

 

JOIN US TODAY →