Musings on Faith Deconstruction
Why Being the "Bad Girl" Now Won't Work care vs. cure good girl healing holidays Jan 01, 2024

It's January 1st, and we all know what that means: Drastic goal-setting time. This is the...

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The Hamster Wheel of "Healing" good girl healing religious harm religious programming Jun 01, 2023
You wouldn't be the first person to come out of their faith as an adult, realizing:
  • You have no...
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The Exhausting Rules of the Religious Good Girl good girl healing Mar 23, 2023

Did you grow up thinking you needed to be/think/and do everything perfectly, all under the...

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Why You Still Fight Yourself (and how to stop) good girl healing religious programming self care Feb 15, 2023

The same high-demand religion that taught you to hate your sinful nature, probably also trained...

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How Accountability Turned You Into a Perfectionist boundaries good girl perfectionism religious programming Jan 08, 2023

If religious environments taught you to constantly take an inventory of yourself so you could...

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Healing From the Religious Good Girl good girl healing Jan 01, 2023

Do you think that in order to heal from being the religious good girl, you must now become the...

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What is the Religious Good Girl? good girl religious programming Jul 08, 2022

We often use the term "Religious Good Girl" to describe the typical experience of our clients...

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How Religion Trained You to be the "Good Girl" good girl Jun 01, 2022

As the religious good girl, it's typical to think that shaming yourself is the best motivator to...

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